in the hands of fate

Wednesday, December 16, 2009
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Sometimes people come into your life & you know right away that
they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach
you a lesson, or help you figure out who you are & or who you want
to become.

You never know who these people may be, but when you lock eyes
with them, you know at the very moment that they will affect your
life in some profound way and sometime things will happen to you
that may seem horrible, painful, & unfair at first, but in reflection you
find that without overcoming these obstacles that you would have
never realized your true potential, strength, will power, or heart.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by
mean of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness
& sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without this
small test, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved,
straight, flat road to nowhere. It would be safe & comfortable, but dull
and utterly pointless.

The people that you meet who affect your life, and the success and
downfalls you experience, help to create who you are and who you
will become. Even the bad experiences are learned from. In fact,
they are the most poignant ones.Sometimes the people who hurt us
the most are people who were hurt more than us. In the end everyone
will hurt you... it's up to you to decide who is worth the pain.

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them
for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being
cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them
back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a
way, they are teaching you to love & how to open your heart & eyes to
things.

Make everyday count. Appreciate every moment & take from those
moments everything you could possibly can for you may never be able
to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to
before & actually listen... Let yourself fall in love again, break free, and
set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right too.

Believe in yourself. For if you don't believe in yourself, it will be hard for
others to believe in you. You can make your life anything you wish.....Create
your own life & then go out & live it with absolutely NO REGRETS. Most
importantly, if you love someone tell him or her, for you NEVER know what
tomorrow may have in store. And learn a lesson in life each day you live.

Today is the tomorrow you were worried about yesterday.... Was it worth it?

<3

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